Love.... Parenthood

I'm not sure if any of you have ever watched it but there is show called "Parenthood" on NBC. In the show, there is a boy named Max, who has autism. In last night's episode, (that I just watched because there is no way I can stay up past 10), Max calls his mom a "b*****" and begins throwing things at her. She gives him a punishment that he doesn't take so kindly to. As his way of trying to make up, he makes his mom dinner. He "makes"mac-n-cheese, carrots and puts a lot of other things on the table to fill it up. It was a remarkable moment for me as I watched it and I shed a tear as I thought about the future with Marissa. (For those of you who don't know- Marissa only eats pancakes, eggs, hash browns, mac-n-cheese and pizza).

I have a very good friend that is going through a very tough time. As I was writing her today, I was listing off the things that Marissa doesn't have or do. Like, she doesn't have friends, doesn't play with Barbies, and will never be able to have children. I will never be a grandparent and I don't know what her future truly holds for her. I think she could be successful and I want her to be successful but I honestly don't know what she will be capable of. But, as I think about the things that she doesn't do, I often neglect the things she can do. So, as I think of the moment in Parenthood when Max "made" his mom dinner- it reminded me of the special things that Marissa does for me. The simple hug, or the "I love you mom", or even just her smile. They may not happen for days at a time, but when they do, my heart melts. Sometimes is is just the simple things that make life a little sweeter. I hope that as we begin 2012, that each of you will look at the simple things your children do for you. Don't take one minute of it for granted. There are some moms out there that long for the those experiences.

Happy New Year!