Is this what 5 is going to be like????

Okay, so on Saturday we had Marissa's birthday party and so she is "officially" 5. Oh, boy is 5 here with a vengeance. Today, is the first day that she got 3 sad faces at school with the word "defiant" written in her book. I had to go and get her from school and she cried all the way home and for an hour at home. She was whiny, bossy and grouchy. Ugh. Frustration is setting in and the great fear of the unknown- is this what 5 is going to be like?